Movies like
A
Separation are why I love movies.
Yes,
shoot-em-ups are great, and everyone loves a well-executed romantic
comedy. But films like
A Separation remind us what the medium
can do: it can surprise, instruct, entertain. It can make us better
people.
A Separation
begins crisply. We're in a judge's chamber in an Iranian city. It's
intimate and unintimidating, at least on its face. A man and woman
sit before the judge. She wants a divorce; he does not. The
couple's emigration visa has finally come through, but he has cold
feet. He doesn't know who will take care of his
Alzheimer's-afflicted father.
“Why,” the
judge asks the woman, “are you in such a hurry to leave?”
“Because I
want my daughter to have a better life.”
“Your daughter
can't have a good life here in Iran?”
“Well, yes,
um, of course she can.”

And here it is,
right in the opening scene: the central conflict between the spouses,
the everyday (and manageable) fear of living in a totalitarian state,
the grinding, crushing weights of conflicting responsibilities.
As
the ripples of this couple's conflict spread, many around them will
be faced with difficult emotional, religious, and legal dilemmas.
Their young daughter will have to make tough choices as she balances
her duties to her parents with her own judgement and needs. The
woman they hire to look after the father as they sort things out must
face cultural and religious challenges that would never occur to a
Westerner (In one poignant scene, she calls a religious adviser to
ask whether it's permitted for her to change the old man's soiled
clothing.). Their families, friends, and co-workers will get wrapped
up in the situation. Everyone gets hurt, and it's devastating.
There's
more: I don't think I will ever set foot in Iran, much less an
Iranian courtroom. Even if I could, it would be as a tourist, an
escorted guest. Since I don't speak Farsi, I'd never understand what
people were saying and I'd never get the flavor of their experience.
A Separation gives me
onscreen what I could never get in real life: an empathetic, detailed
sense of what it would be like to be these people in this place; to
eat in their kitchens, drive their cars, and sleep in their beds.
It's wonderful, if just for that opportunity.
Most
importantly,
A Separation
is a carefully written, devastatingly performed, beautifully shot film
that surprises and challenges its audience at every turn. Yes, the
film is basically a domestic drama. Nevertheless, it had me biting
my nails and hanging on every word. It's domestic drama, but it's also great drama, the kind
of movie that makes you forget about the passage of time.
In
short,
A Separation
earns its Academy Award for Best Foreign Language Film. It
is a masterpiece, and not to be missed.